I've done some studying too..I'd like to show you what this man, Mike Satterlee came up with...
I Cor..14:33.
As in all the congregations of the holy ones, (another words, this is what's going on in all the congregations) let the women keep silent in the congregations, for it is not permitted for them to speak, but let them be in subjection, even as the Law says.(Couldn't be Jehovah's law, so it must be their endless traditional laws) If, then, they want to learn something, let them question their own husbands at home, for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in a congregation."
(Note the next scripture, how Paul show abhorence for these ideas)" What? Was it from YOU that the word of God came forth, or was it only as far as YOU that reached." (Paul is saying, Are you making up your own rules, or ignoring God's law)
So Paul was stating the error of the congregations about there attitute about women. He wasn't stating it as the way women should be treated.